

Last Christmas, I was sitting at the table looking through all the Christmas cards we’d received.
I love Christmas cards.
I love seeing how families have grown over the past year. I love reading the little notes tucked inside. Every card feels like a tiny glimpse into someone else’s life, and every year I tell myself, This year, I’m going to get ours out on time.
Then I looked around my own house.
There wasn’t a stack of cards waiting to be mailed.
There wasn’t even a design picked out.
Once again, Christmas had come and gone without us sending a single card.
It wasn’t because I didn’t care.
It was because I waited.
I waited for everyone’s schedules to line up.
I waited to figure out what everyone should wear.
I waited for the weather.
I waited for the perfect time.
And somewhere between school events, work, family gatherings, decorating, shopping, baking, and everyday life…
The window quietly closed.
By the time I remembered Christmas cards, it was already Christmas.
After Christmas, I started reading conversations from other moms online.
I expected to find women who had Christmas all figured out.
Instead, I found comments that sounded just like me.
Some had given up on Christmas cards altogether.
Others switched to New Year’s cards because they could never get them mailed in time.
Some used photos they already had because they never scheduled family pictures.
And so many of them said the same thing…
“Every year, I mean to do it earlier.”
That’s when it hit me.
The problem wasn’t Christmas cards.
The problem was treating Christmas cards like a December project.
They’re not.
They’re a decision that starts months earlier.
Life does.
School starts.
Sports begin.
Weekends disappear.
Suddenly it’s Thanksgiving, and we’re trying to squeeze family photos, Christmas cards, gifts, decorating, baking, and every holiday tradition into a few short weeks.
No wonder it feels overwhelming.
This year, I’m planning Christmas in July.
Not because I want to rush the holidays.
Because I want to enjoy them.
Instead of trying to remember everything in November, I’m making a few simple decisions now.
When do I want family photos?
When do I need to order Christmas cards?
What traditions do I want to make time for?
What memories do I want my family to have this year?
Those questions take almost no time to answer in July.
They save a lot of stress in December.
As I started writing everything down, I realized I wasn’t really creating a checklist.
I was creating a roadmap.
A simple plan that reminded me when to think about photos, Christmas cards, gifts, and all the little details that somehow pile up every year.
Originally, it was just for me.
Then I thought…
If this would help me, maybe it would help another mom too.
So I turned it into a free guide.
The guide isn’t really about Christmas cards.
It’s about creating enough breathing room to actually enjoy Christmas.
Because years from now, your kids probably won’t remember whether the cards went out on December 1st or December 10th.
But they will remember decorating the tree together.
They’ll remember baking cookies.
They’ll remember looking at Christmas lights.
They’ll remember reading The Night Before Christmas before bed.
Those are the moments I don’t want to miss because I was busy stressing over everything else.
If you’ve ever found yourself saying,
“I can’t believe Christmas is here already,”
I made something that might help.
My FREE Christmas Planning Guide walks you through the holiday timeline—from family photos and Christmas cards to simple planning tips that make the whole season feel less rushed.
Click “CHRISTMAS” for the link.
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